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Daily Gospel Reflection for February 27, 2016

Today’s Gospel: Luke 15:1-3, 11-32

The story of the prodigal son is so familiar that it’s almost hard to read. Even so, it’s a story that has long struck me close to my heart.

Like so many, I wandered away. I made terrible decisions. I all but spit in everyone’s face because, you know, “I can DO IT MYSELF!”

And when I came back, there were open arms. I expected (still expect) harsh judgments, critical lectures, or, at the very least, some flogging punishments. What I got instead was mercy, compassion, and love.

Now, as a parent, I find myself in a different part of the story. While I can still wander off (and still do!), it’s less likely I’ll be found feeding with pigs. But these young people in my life…the thought of them making decisions as I did drives me to my knees.

And it will send me running to the end of the road when they return!

Ponder:

Who needs your embrace today? How can you show mercy to that someone who needs it?

Pray:

Father, help me to embrace others with the mercy you show me.

 

Copyright 2016 Sarah Reinhard

When she’s not chasing kids, chugging coffee, or juggling work, Sarah Reinhard’s usually trying to stay up read just one…more…chapter. You can find her online at SnoringScholar.com.

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Daily Gospel Reflection for February 26, 2016

Today’s Gospel: Matthew 21:33-43, 45-46

I often insert myself into the Bible stories, so when I first read this parable, I immediately identified with the Master’s servants. The Master’s servants don’t get an easy time of it – here, they are beaten, stoned, and killed. It’s entirely possible some of us could face martyrdom in the course of working for our Master, too. That’s just part of our “employment package,” and as far as I’m concerned, it’s worth it. After all, why should I pride myself better than the Son, who met a brutal reception doing His Father’s business?

But, I also identify with the wicked tenants who are out to defraud the Landowner, even to the point of committing murder. How often have I sought to defraud my Master, volitionally or out of simple carelessness? How many times have I held something back – some resource, some part of myself? “This isn’t important, it’s only this little bit of money,” I try to hoard, or, “I can’t help this person, I have to look out for myself, here,” as I turn my back on a need presenting itself to me.

The fact is, the Master owns me. He bought me on that Cross. There is no “mine” – it’s all His, to command, to delegate, to collect. . .to harvest as He sees fit.

Ponder:

Have I given my all to my Master? Is there anything I’ve tried to except from His ownership of me?

Pray:

Heavenly Father, please help me to remember just how completely I belong to You – no exceptions, no compromises.

 

Copyright 2016 Laura Lowder

Laura Lowder was received into the Catholic Church in November, 2002, after more than 25 years as an evangelical Protestant. She is a Benedictine oblate and lay leader of her local oblate deanery. In addition to writing, Laura works in church music and teaches piano.

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Daily Gospel Reflection for February 25, 2016

Today’s Gospel: Luke 16, 19-31

Today’s Gospel reminds me of the “Amazing Grace” verse that says, “I once was lost but now am found, was blind, but now I see.”

Today’s parable is about a rich man who doesn’t notice the poor, sickly, and starving man lying at his door. If he does notice poor Lazarus, he certainly doesn’t help him. After they both pass away, the rich man looks up from the “netherworld” where he is being tormented, and sees Abraham comforting Lazarus. When the rich man asks Abraham for comfort, he is reminded that he lived a good life and didn’t help poor Lazarus even though he had the ability to do so.

In the afterlife, the roles of the two men are now reversed. The rich man will live in torment and Lazarus will live with God in heaven, healed, whole, happy.

To me, it is monumentally sad, tragic even, that the rich man never got to feel the joy of serving a person (or people) who really needed his help. He never got to look into Lazarus’ eyes and see the thanksgiving in them. He never made a difference.

God commands us to help the least of HIS people. As I write this, I feel monumentally blessed to be the kind of person that reaches out to help others and who knows so many great people who do more than I ever could. We were all taught the Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would have done to you! I leave you with this quote from one of my favorite people.

“Be the one!” ~ Mother Teresa

Ponder:

How can you use your time and talent to make our world a better – more loving, comforting, and hopeful place – for the least of your brethren?

Pray:

Dear Lord, I pray that You touch my heart and guide me in ways that encourage me to reach out and help my neighbors. Take me out of my comfort zone and mold me into a more giving and helpful person. Please keep me in Your light that I may never be lost to You and Yours. Amen!

 

Copyright 2016 Emily Davis

Emily Davis is Catholic convert, homeschooling mom, and 3rd grade religious ed teacher. She lives in the Fort Worth area with her husband Marque and son Christopher. She left her career in event planning and executive administration to stay home with her son who has Aspergers. She writes about faith, life, finances, homeschooling and crafting. davishomemarysmantle.blogspot.com

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Daily Gospel Reflection for February 24, 2016

Today’s Gospel: Matthew 20:17-28

There is no shortcut to the kingdom of heaven. Jesus has just warned the twelve of his coming passion, and in an exquisite moment of bad timing, Salome, mother of James and John, requests that her son be granted honors when Jesus becomes king. On the very road to His passion, they still don’t get it.

Like us, they think things will continue as they always have. For James and John, that meant an earthly king with power to rule and grant favor. For us, it means that our conversions too often come without an expectation of the cross. We must drink the cup along with James and John, and in it we shall drink our trials and our hardships. Yet that cup is not filled with gall but with a share in the blood shed by the Lord, so our suffering doesn’t have to be meaningless. United to the cross in baptism, we participate in the saving work of Christ.

Everything is made new in Christ, and the old forms and meanings don’t hold. The apostles expect greatness in this world, not imagining that our glory only comes in the next. The apostles expect to sit at the side of the king while servants give them the choicest morsels on golden plates. Jesus had something else in mind for them, and us. They were to serve as he did, even unto death. And He Himself would provide the choicest of all morsels, not a golden plate, but from His very hands, and made of His very body.

Ponder:

Do we expect our faith to lift us up above all people and even all trials, or do we realize that we are closest to Christ in our brokenness and humility?

Pray:

Lord, help us to serve in our lives, and with our suffering, to help build up the Kingdom.

 

Copyright 2016 Thomas L. McDonald

Thomas L. McDonald is a writer, catechist, and historian. He blogs at God and the Machine.

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Daily Gospel Reflection for February 23, 2016

Today’s Gospel: Matthew 23:1-12

Today’s Gospel reading from Matthew presents us with a fundamental choice: will we live in illusion or reality, in false pride or true humility?

Jesus chides the scribes and Pharisees for their religious practices. As Christians, it is easy to denigrate the Jewish Pharisees, thinking we have risen above such behaviour because we live in New Testament times, no longer under the burden of the Old Testament laws. However, before we judge these professional religious too harshly, we should remember they were simply striving to be good, observant Jews. In their zeal, they inadvertently ended up seeking respect for themselves rather than inspiring love for God. Religious duty became a burden rather than a joy. It is a mistake which most Catholics fall into when they get serious about spirituality. I know I did.

Basically, the Pharisees slipped into the very human tendency to live an illusion. an illusion which stated they could be holy through their own efforts.  Catholics can also fall into the mistake of living under the burdens of false expectations and rules. When we see ourselves, in reality, the way God sees us, we realize we desperately need the power of Christ’s death and Ressurection to save us from ourselves.

Christ was a servant for our sake. He humbled himself, even to death on a cross. What is true Christ-like humility? Humility is self-knowledge, seeing ourselves in reality as God sees us. The humble do not trust in themselves, but trust in God and in the power of His love and saving grace.  True humility is living in reality, in joy and simplicity.

Jesus closes this passage with strong words which reiterate the crux of His message to His disciples, “The greatest among you will be your servant. For those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.”

Ponder:

When do I slip into pride, raising myself up as an example to be admired by those around me rather than serving with humility and joy?

Pray:

Oh Lord, fill me with Your love and a grant me a servant’s heart so I may walk in joy and holiness, a humble light of hope to those around me.

 

Copyright 2016 Melanie Jean Juneau

Melanie Jean Juneau is a mother of nine children who blogs at joy of nine9. Her writing is humorous and heart-warming; thoughtful and thought-provoking. Part of her call and her witness is to write the truth about children, family, marriage and the sacredness of life.

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Daily Gospel Reflection for February 22, 2016 – Chair of St. Peter

Today’s Gospel: Mark 16, 13-19 – Feast of the Chair of St. Peter

Today’s Gospel reading is of key importance for Catholics because is one we often use as an argument for papal authority. Jesus said, “And so I say to you, you are Peter, and upon this rock I will build my church, and the gates of the netherworld shall not prevail against it.” The dialogue leading up to this statement is perhaps just as important and deserves our attention as well.

Jesus confers this honor upon Peter for his response to the question,“Who do people say that the Son of Man is?” Peter replied, “You are the Christ, the Son of the living God.”

It is odd to think that only one among the Apostles really understood who Jesus was. Think of the thousands of people who knew or met Jesus during his lifetime. Only a handful of these people had any inkling his true nature.

This tells us that even a direct experience of the historical Jesus offers us no advantage in terms of faith. Of the thousands of people that heard Jesus preach during his lifetime, it is likely only a handful would ultimately become Christians. Even Jesus’ closest disciples came to their faith through the Pentecost, not through their relationship with Christ in human form. As Jesus himself said to Peter, “Flesh and blood has not revealed this to you, but my heavenly Father.”

This passage is a caution for us in our own time. It is tempting to want proof of God’s existence or physical evidence of the historical Jesus. Those proofs, even if available to us, are not enough to convince us of God’s goodness or Jesus’ divine nature. That comes through grace alone.

Ponder:

Why was it a “leap of faith” for Jesus’ own disciples to become the first Christians?

Pray:

God, grant me the gift of faith, the wisdom to nurture it and the strength to defend it.

 

Copyright 2016 Kirk Whitney

Kirk Whitney is a retired educator and occasional blogger. He resides in Fresno, California with his wife, daughter and three grandchildren.

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Daily Gospel Reflection for February 21, 2016 – Second Sunday of Lent

Today’s Gospel: Luke 9, 28B-36 – Second Sunday of Lent

Have you ever found yourself watching a television show or talking on the phone and you started to fall asleep? You try to pay attention to the program, the other person, or situation but you can’t quite keep your eyes open. You start to drift off, missing a few words here, a couple sentences there. Soon, you’re not quite sure what’s happening and if you are talking to a friend, they’ll have told you to go to bed.

As I reflected on this incredible reading, the Transfiguration, I couldn’t help but notice a line I’ve missed all these years. Luke says “Peter and his companions had been overcome by sleep, but becoming fully awake, they saw his glory…” Did you catch that? They were sleeping! For the whole conversation Jesus had with Moses and Elijah about what was going to happen in Jerusalem! It’s only as the two men were leaving that the disciples managed to open their sleepy eyes and recognize the miracle before them.

How often are we asleep to the miracles around us? How often do we miss an encounter with our Lord because we weren’t paying attention? I received a book for Christmas called Thrift Store Saints: Meeting Jesus 25¢ at a Time by Jane Knuth. The book chronicles Jane’s experiences volunteering at a St. Vincent de Paul store, and how she grew in awareness of Jesus’ presence in the store’s clients. Each chapter Jane shares a story of how the poor and homeless of Kalamazoo, Michigan, helped her not only grow spiritually, but encounter Jesus in each of them. She “woke up” to the reality of Jesus in the poor. Her book has challenged me to consider how awake I am to daily encounters with Jesus, especially in the faces of the poor and homeless.

Ponder:

What are some areas where you are sleepy, especially spiritually? What do you need to ask Jesus to open your eyes to so that you might see Him more clearly?

Pray:

Dear Jesus, please help us to be fully awake to the miracles You place in our lives every day. Let us see Your face in each person we encounter, recognizing them as a beloved child of God.

 

Copyright 2016 Kate Taliaferro

Kate Taliaferro is an Air Force wife, mom of 3 under 4. She enjoys homeschooling her two oldest while chasing her early-walking, food-scattering-loving baby. She has a Masters in Religious Education and tries to find God’s presence in all parts of her day, be it cooking, cleaning or just the everyday ordinary. Follow her blog, Daily Graces to join her crazy, adventurous, God-filled family.

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Daily Gospel Reflection for February 20, 2016

Today’s Gospel: Matthew 5, 43-48

Today’s Gospel read cuts right to the chase. Jesus doesn’t give a way out or alternatives. He is very specific, perhaps painfully so: “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.” As I write this reflection I am preparing my heart and home for another deployment, another extended period of time when my children will not be tucked in by their father, when we will have an empty place at our table, when I will pray every night that if one of my children needs me during the night, the others will sleep soundly so I don’t have to choose who to comfort first.

Love my enemies? Pray for those who persecute me? This Gospel reading challenges me to stop and think critically about my present situation. I have a husband who is going to war. Every day, there is a clear and distinct enemy who does not have his best interests at heart or those of other warriors like him. How do I pray for these people? How do I love someone when they wish the opposite for me, my husband, and other soldiers and warriors? How do I wish for their good, when they so clearly do not wish for mine?

I have come to realize that it’s not about them.

It’s about me. It’s about how far I’m willing to trust God. God is not asking me to reconcile the nations, He is asking me to reconcile my heart. God created all of His creation good and He asks that each of us see it in that light. Regardless of who these people are, where they live, what they believe, they were made in the image and likeness of God. Before they are anything else, they are God’s children, they are my brother and my sister.

Ponder:

Who is your enemy? Why do you see them as an enemy? How can you incorporate them into your prayer life in a positive, meaningful way?

Pray:

Dear heavenly Father, please be with all of those at war this day. Regardless of which side they stand for, I ask you to look kindly upon them and bring them home safely to their families. Inspire in their leaders’ hearts the ways of peace, justice and dignity for all men and women of the world.

 

Copyright 2016 Kate Taliaferro

Kate Taliaferro is an Air Force wife, mom of 3 under 4. She enjoys homeschooling her two oldest while chasing her early-walking, food-scattering-loving baby. She has a Masters in Religious Education and tries to find God’s presence in all parts of her day, be it cooking, cleaning or just the everyday ordinary. Follow her blog, Daily Graces to join her crazy, adventurous, God-filled family.

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Daily Gospel Reflection for February 19, 2016

Today’s Gospel: Matthew 5, 20-26 – Day of Abstinence

Jesus is challenging our concept of sin today. Throughout Matthew 5 we hear about how sin goes beyond just committing physical acts that harm ourselves or others. Sin also includes our attitudes and thoughts as well, which can be much more difficult to master. Jesus’ challenge reminds me of all of the times I’ve been angry at someone:

When I was angry at my boss or a close friend’s boss at work who made life difficult for them.

When I was angry at a roommate for leaving a mess, or for giving me a hard time for not being generous to them.

When I was angry at my parents as a child when they made me do something I didn’t want to do.

But Jesus is not trying to make us feel awful about the times when we got mad. He wants to stress the importance of seeking forgiveness. “Go first and be reconciled.”

There is a reason Jesus says this needs to be done before bringing a gift to the altar. A lack of forgiveness hurts our relationship with God and with each other. That’s why we as Catholics are encouraged to receive the sacrament of reconciliation as often as possible – it helps our relationships with him and with the other people in our lives.

None of us are perfect enough to enter the kingdom of heaven by our own merits. It is God’s grace and forgiveness that gets us there, which we receive simply by asking for it. Jesus’ instruction to ask forgiveness from your brother before he hands you over to the judge applies when we need to ask another person for forgiveness, but also when we need to ask God for forgiveness and when we need to ask ourselves for forgiveness too.

Ponder:

Who do I need to ask for forgiveness from? Who do I need to forgive for wronging me, either by talking to them or simply forgiving them in my own heart?

Pray:

Lord, help me to avoid anger towards those who frustrate me, and ask for forgiveness from them when I act out on that anger. Help me to love like you do and always see the good in those around me.

 

Copyright 2016 Alex Johannigman

Alex Johannigman is a business analyst by day, theology graduate student by night, youth minister on the weekends, and blogger at All That Catholic Jazz when he should be sleeping. He developed a love for the homeless after serving as a missionary with Christ in the City and he enjoys teaching about St. John Paul II’s Theology of the Body.

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Daily Gospel Reflection for February 18, 2016

Today’s Gospel: Matthew 7, 7-12

Jesus urges us to ask God for what is good for us, reminding us that God only wants to give us what is good for us.
God wants us to have what is good for us.
God wants to give us what is good for us.
God wants us to ask for what is good for us.
God wants us to do what is good for us.
God wants us to know that when we do what is good for others, we have done what is good for us.

God knows what we need, and it’s not all about the creature comforts and the shallow things that we might find ourselves wanting. Our challenge is letting go of the desire to tell God what we think we need, to ask for the Lord to give us what is best for us, to seek ways to do what is good for others, to knock on that door to the Kingdom that will be opened to those who believe, trust and surrender our wills to His.

Today, may we seek to serve others with the same abundant, generous love God shows to us, to seek His Kingdom by serving Him and those around us.

Ponder:

When I ask God for something, am I asking for what I think is good for me rather than what God knows is good for me?

Pray:

Lord, help me to trust in your goodness and providence. Help me to abandon my ideas of what is good for me and accept your will for me.

 

Copyright 2016 Barb Szyszkiewicz, OFS

Barb Szyszkiewicz, OFS is a married mom of three and a secular Franciscan. Barb maintains two blogs, Franciscanmom and Cook and Count and is an editorial consultant for CatholicMom. She volunteers at the school library and enjoys Notre Dame football and basketball.

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